Effective at Work.
Except at Home.
The 75-minute live session for the man closing the gap between who he is at 5pm and who he becomes at 7.
I went into the Margin thinking I needed to fix my marriage. What I actually needed was to learn what I'd been doing in every conversation for fifteen years. The work is dignified. The room is serious. I left it different.
You're not in crisis. So why does the man at home feel like a stranger?
The problem isn't your career. It isn't your marriage. It's that the operating mode that made you effective at work doesn't translate at the kitchen table — and nobody handed you a manual for the switch.
You've been carrying a posture, a tempo, a way of being in the room that's served you for two decades. It walks home with you. And it costs you.
You become the man people seek out at work and the one your daughter learns not to interrupt.
That's not a flaw. That's a system you built. And systems can be rebuilt.
Three months in I had a conversation with my daughter that wouldn't have happened a year ago. Not different in tone. Different in what she trusted me with.
Tired of being the half-present man at the kitchen table?
You're sharp at 5pm. You're a different man at 7.
You're available to your team. You're slower with the people you came home for.
You can hold a board. You can't quite hold the room you live in.
That's not coming home. That's clocking off.
Six things the man who logs off won't have when the man who logs on did.
Not techniques to perform. Things you'll have arrived at yourself, in your own language, that don't unwind by Tuesday morning.
I expected another men's circle and I was wrong. There's no performance. Just a structure that works because it doesn't try to be anything other than what it is.
75 minutes. Live. Not recorded.
The man running the room
24 years in corporate compliance and senior leadership — Bank of America, Barclays, Goldman Sachs. I built the same operating mode you did. I ran it for two decades. And I rebuilt what it cost me at home.
Now I work with professional men navigating the distance between who they are at work and who they want to be at home. Over 300 men. This training is drawn from that work.
I'm not a therapist. Not a motivational speaker. A man who's lived the operating mode and rebuilt from inside it. The session is the same room I run with the men in the programme — opened up for one evening.
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The essay named it. This session goes further.
Numbers are deliberately limited. Your name and email is all we need — the Zoom link and a reminder follow.
No obligation. No pitch. No spam.
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